When The Initial Fire Dies Down, How Do You Keep The Fire Lit?

New Year's have come and gone, many had the fire lit to change their ways, most probably have fizzled out. So how does one keep the flame going once that initial flare has dwindled? There are many solutions but I just wanted to highlight a few on this post that has helped me throughout the past two years. The road has not been easy but I am on it and I am staying on track through the use of these . I may have fallen a few times but it is in getting back up and going again where we find our strength. Here are the top things I have learned:

1. Find a Reason Strong Enough That Excuses Melt Away -

    I found a few reasons to change. The greatest of which is my son. When my wife and I decided it is time to have a child I knew then and there I needed to change. In the years prior, I have witnessed friends and family lose loved ones due to obesity. I kept thinking if they only took care of their health, would they still be around? I can never for sure know the answer but if I am going to die I want to make sure I died fighting. So what better reason to fight to live than to be there for my son as long as I can to guide him and to enjoy as many moments with him as possible. With that reason I had no more excuses as I did the previous years and it kept me going.

2. Support Is Key -

   Some people can do it on their own and more power to them. For others like me, I had a hard time keeping myself accountable. Prior to my commitment to truly making a change I would work out and if I found it too hard I would just sit and people watch at the gym instead and pretend I am pedaling my bike harder than what I really was doing. When I found my fit family through Beachbody, I was immersed in a community of fellow challengers and challengers-turned-coaches. They kept me motivated and engaged in my journey. Knowing that they were also in the same journey made me push on because they were doing the same. It was a big help knowing I was not alone in this. Also, through our social media groups I was able to connect with a few people in the same programs I am doing that were like minded and kindred spirits. Together we have formed a small group who push each other daily to be better and do better from what we have done the previous day.

At work I have also created a fit family of coworkers. We workout during lunch and after work. They were part of the reason that I decided to become a group fitness instructor. We keep each other focused and I truly enjoy helping them out by delivering great workout sessions and inspirational words when I can. It is an honor and a blessing to be able to have their support and together we are creating a healthier workplace.

3. Progress Not Perfection -

     I preach this to the people I coach all the time. In this path I do not strive to be perfect or strict in what I do. We also have to enjoy our lives. The key is in moderation. It is ok to have a pizza slice or two. The problem begins when we order a pizza and then proceed to eat the whole box. In moderation we can afford to treat ourselves here and there. To be honest, I am known to have a donut every so often. Do not ever feel guilty as long as you are consistent with your nutrition and exercise most of the time.

4. Working Out Is Hard But Who Says It Can't Be Fun -

     I just have a fun loving and joking personality. If any of you follow my Instagram account @BREYFIT9 you can see I try to infuse some fun into my work outs. We have been known to dance to the music in between sets. (With proper form of course, and as much as my bad leg will allow me to move). When I have fun with a work out I forget it is work. As I do certain routines, songs or moves pop into my head so after I finish my session I go back and put it into a video. Great way for me to get extra work in and it keeps me going through my normal session excited to shoot the idea into film. Others might not think it should be normal practice but honestly who cares, as long as I am progressing I will look for ways to enjoy what I do.

5. When The Going Gets Tough (And Trust Me It Does) I Turn to Personal Development Books and Youtube Inspirational Vids -

     Why books and Youtube vids? There is something empowering about hearing someone else's words of inspiration. These are professionals who have spent their lives researching and putting together words that move. There has been many moments last year where I felt like quitting but hearing a speaker like Les Brown or Simon Sinek gave me that extra push to keep on Sometimes a line from these speakers can resonate with you at the exact time you need it.

When that initial fire dies out find ways to bring it back on. Our health is very important as it is our bodies that allow us to live and we only have one so we need to take care of it. I am always here to help, feel free to reach out anytime to my email coachbenjo@yahoo.com. I wish you all to live in health and wellness. Until next time!